Called everyone imaginable
It’s said that one quiet night in 1961, Cary Grant was sitting alone in his Beverly Hills home, watching television as midnight approached. A forgettable show was playing when suddenly a striking young woman appeared on the screen — a girl in her early twenties with a tumble of honey-blond hair falling over one eye, a button nose, wide, expressive eyes, and full lips.
Grant was instantly mesmerized. He quickly found out who she was and learned that the young beauty was already something of a television veteran. The smitten movie star began pulling every string he could, making call after call until he discovered where to find her.
When they married, she was 28 and he was 61.
“I loved him deeply and was committed to him,” she later said.
Yet their love came with expectations.
“He wanted me to quit my acting career, I did. He wanted to change my hair, the way I dressed, the way I walked, the way I wrote. And I so wanted to make him happy.”
She tried to become the woman he imagined, but the harder she tried, the more she lost sight of herself.
“I would try and close the cupboards more gently… try and drive with both hands on the steering wheel,” she recalled.
Over time, she realized no amount of change could fill the void between them.
“If you go against your deepest feelings… you’re screwed,” she admitted.
Their marriage lasted only three years, ending in 1968. At the time of their divorce, the 30-year-old beauty claimed that her husband had treated her in “a cruel and inhuman manner.”
She claimed that Grant had pushed her to the brink of a nervous breakdown and persuaded her to take LSD, which she said she used only twice. In addition, she alleged that he struck her, and laughed while doing it.
Court documents also revealed that in 1967, Grant’s annual income was around $500,000, with a personal fortune exceeding $10 million.
Walking away and starting over
But leaving her marriage wasn’t easy.
“I couldn’t breathe in that atmosphere anymore,” she confessed.
Despite the heartbreak, her love for him remained pure. “I didn’t really want anything from him. I just loved him. There was no agenda there.”
In the years that followed, she looked back with gratitude rather than bitterness.
“There are some happy memories with Cary. I’m grateful for the experience. It’s brought me to be the woman I am today.”
The end of their relationship marked the beginning of a long journey back to herself — a journey defined by resilience, reflection, and faith.
A mother’s greatest gift
From their marriage came her greatest joy: their daughter, Jennifer, born in 1966 — Cary Grant’s only child. Even after their divorce, this bond kept them connected in mutual devotion.
After Grant’s death in 1986, she was offered “millions” to write a tell-all memoir about their marriage. “Swifty Lazar called me a week after Cary died,” she recalled, but she turned it down.
Fifteen years later, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, then a book editor, encouraged her to tell her story — but not just about Cary.
She waited until she was emotionally ready. “It’s about relationships and what people do to themselves and each other under that canopy called love,” she explained of her eventual memoir.
Facing time and public judgment
Even into her 80s, she remained in the public eye, attending events and basketball games with her trademark energy and smile.
In 2023, fans and critics took to social media after seeing new photos of her — some expressing admiration, others judgment.
The actress is seen out and about on July 13, 2025 in West Hollywood, California. (Photo by MEGA/GC Images)
“Looks great for 86 and walking — what more could you ask for?” one fan wrote.
Others were less kind, saying, “Too much surgery” or “What happened to her face?”
The reactions reflected society’s enduring obsession with youth, especially for women once celebrated as symbols of beauty.
